Posts on ‘April 4th, 2008’

My wife can only have orgasms with vibrators

A man asks:

My wife can only have orgasms with vibrators. I feel very inadequate here. It is causing a very big emotional problem for me and our marriage. She is happy with the situation, and is not willing to do anything to change this. What can I do to feel better about the situation? Continue reading →

An issue with erections

C. asks:

Hello, Dr. Sommers,

I am a healthy 26-year-old in a 1-1/2 year relationship. We have sex 1-2x per week. For the last 8 months or so, I haven’t been able to get an erection unless my girlfriend performs oral sex on me. When we roll around in bed it just doesn’t do it for me. Now I think about getting hard when we are together and of course it doesn’t happen…unless she goes down on me. Continue reading →

An issue with retarded ejaculation

D.M. asks:

I am 51 years old and have suffered from retarded ejaculation since I was in my 20′s. I have been married for 15 years and until last spring the marriage was sexless because of my problem. Continue reading →