Growing Up Sexually

People are sometimes surprised to hear that our basic sexual attitudes are set by about the age of 5.

Our family of origin will determine such things, for example, as how comfortable we would be with nudity, and with showing our bodies to others, without shame or guilt. If you’re fortunate to have been born in a family where your parents have become comfortable with their own sexual nature and feel “at home” in their bodies, then usually through the process of osmosis the child will pick up the same basic attitudes towards his or her developing physical self. Continue reading “Growing Up Sexually”

What Can Men Learn From Porn?

This is an excellent video that answers the question:

http://loveandhealth.ifriends.net/Article.cfm?Topic=4&SubTopic=33&Article=392

The 5 key lessons are:

1. Porn Can Help Men Expand and Diversify Their Perceptions about Female Desirability.

2. Porn Teaches How to Fantasize.

3. Porn Demonstrates That Taboos Can and Should Be Broken.

4. Porn Motivates Real Sex Education.

5. Porn Celebrates Erotic Pleasure.

Highly recommended. This is one of the best videos I’ve seen.

(This opinion belongs solely to the author and does not necessarily reflect the views of The Good Sex Network.)

Does sex have a future?

Here is an interesting question examined in the light of new scientific research. Perhaps in time the only reason to have sex will be for pleasure. What do you think?

(This opinion belongs solely to the author and does not necessarily reflect the views of The Good Sex Network.)

Dirty Business

Most often, when discussions are held about the adult entertainment industry, it is through a moral filter. Such discussions usually result in deadlock because you will never persuade the moral police that adult videos are acceptable within our society.

I found a discussion that looks at the industry from an economic perspective, and not through any moral filter. It is very interesting and illuminating. Highly recommended:

http://zocalopublicsquare.org/full_video_2007.php?event_id=4

(This opinion belongs solely to the author and does not necessarily reflect the views of The Good Sex Network.)

AIM Health Care – excellent videos

This video introduces you to the health risks of working in the porn industry and how best to mitigate the risks.

This is a wonderful video that illuminates the nature of working in the adult entertainment industry. Very informative and enlightening. It provides plenty of good advice. Highly recommended!

(This opinion belongs solely to the author and does not necessarily reflect the views of The Good Sex Network.)

The Sexual Life Re-examined

Recently, I was consulted by a married couple in their mid-30s about a sexual problem. At one point in the interview, she said: “I was raised with the idea that women aren’t supposed to be assertive. If you were, you were a floozie, a shameless hussie — I wasn’t supposed to have those feelings.” Continue reading “The Sexual Life Re-examined”